{"id":1188,"date":"2008-09-17T07:44:11","date_gmt":"2008-09-17T11:44:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/?p=1188"},"modified":"2008-09-09T08:54:40","modified_gmt":"2008-09-09T12:54:40","slug":"my-mother-wears-combat-boots","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/?p=1188","title":{"rendered":"My Mother Wears Combat Boots"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/combatboots-97x150.jpg\" alt=\"Book Cover\" title=\"Book Cover\" width=\"97\" height=\"150\" class=\"contentimg\" \/>Jessica Mills, touring punk musician and columnist for MAXIMUMROCKNROLL, has written a book based on her experiences as a punk parent.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Amid stories of bringing kids (and grandparents) to women&#8217;s rights demonstrations, taking baby on tour with her band, and organizing cooperative childcare, Jessica gives detailed nuts-and-bolts information about weaning, cloth vs. disposable diapers, the psychological effects of co-sleeping, and even how to get free infant gear. This book provides a clever, hip, and entertaining mix of advice, anecdotes, political analysis, and factual sidebars that will help parents as they navigate the first years of their child&#8217;s life.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Some of her advice wouldn&#8217;t work for everyone&#8211;her goals included raising her child without &#8220;gender-coding,&#8221; punishment, or authoritarianism, and at least two of those goals made me roll my eyes&#8211;but her experiences as an alternative-lifestyle parent might be comforting to punk or goth parents who meet with disapproval of our lifestyle choices.<\/p>\n<p>(The trick is to embrace the opprobrium.  I used to love dressing Shadowboy in a onesie that said &#8220;Spawn of Freaks&#8221; and taking him to the grocery store.  Little old ladies would come up to coo at him, read his shirt, give me a horrified look, and take off like a shot.  Good times.)<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mother-Wears-Combat-Boots-Parenting\/dp\/1904859720\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;tag=shadmano-20&#038;qid=1220962924&#038;sr=1-1\">Link<\/a> <I>(via <a href=\"http:\/\/www.boingboing.net\/\">BoingBoing<\/a>)<\/I><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jessica Mills, touring punk musician and columnist for MAXIMUMROCKNROLL, has written a book based on her experiences as a punk parent. Amid stories of bringing kids (and grandparents) to women&#8217;s rights demonstrations, taking baby on tour with her band, and organizing cooperative childcare, Jessica gives detailed nuts-and-bolts information about weaning, cloth vs. disposable diapers, the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bittens"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1188"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1198,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1188\/revisions\/1198"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}