{"id":18979,"date":"2013-07-09T06:27:07","date_gmt":"2013-07-09T11:27:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/?p=18979"},"modified":"2013-06-24T08:55:53","modified_gmt":"2013-06-24T13:55:53","slug":"death-cafe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/?p=18979","title":{"rendered":"Death Cafe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/deathcafe-150x112.jpg\" alt=\"Skull Teacup\" width=\"150\" height=\"112\" class=\"contentimg\" \/>In 2012 Jon Underwood founded a not-for-profit social enterprise called <a href=\"http:\/\/impermanenceatwork.org\/\">Impermanence<\/a>, out of a belief &#8220;that if we were more sorted about death, the world would be a much, much better place.&#8221;  The organization currently has three active projects: Dying Matters, a resource site for people who expect to die within the year; Funeral Advisor, aimed at helping the consumer make informed choices about the funeral industry; and, particularly intriguing for we <i>memento mori<\/i> types, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.deathcafe.com\/\">Death Cafe<\/a>, gatherings where &#8220;people come together in a relaxed and safe setting to discuss death, drink tea and eat delicious cake.&#8221;  Sign me up.<\/p>\n<p>The stated objective of Death Cafe is &#8220;To increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.&#8221;  The Cafe isn&#8217;t a fixed location, but rather a moveable feast; Underwood has hosted several, but has also established the gatherings as a social franchise and encourages others to host their own.  He and his colleagues have put together a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.deathcafe.com\/p\/we-think-that-people-talking-about.html\">free guide<\/a> to holding a Death Cafe, with the main points being:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li>On a not for profit basis, though to be sustainable we try to cover expenses through donations and fundraising<\/li>\n<li>In an accessible, respectful and confidential space, free of discrimination, where people can express their views safely<\/li>\n<li>With no intention of leading participants towards any particular conclusion, product or course of action<\/li>\n<li>Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food \u2013 and cake!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>If you agree to these principles, you can have your gathering listed on the site&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.deathcafe.com\/p\/forthcoming-death-cafes.html\">schedule<\/a> of upcoming events.  (And, obviously, if you don&#8217;t want to hold your own meeting you can check the schedule to look for Death Cafes in your area.)<\/p>\n<p>This sounds like a really interesting, convivial way to discuss a subject that many people find uncomfortable.  Even if you don&#8217;t want to hew to their exact format, a tea party with death as the primary subject matter would be fascinating; subject matter could range from historical funeral customs to the meaning of symbols on gravestones.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2012 Jon Underwood founded a not-for-profit social enterprise called Impermanence, out of a belief &#8220;that if we were more sorted about death, the world would be a much, much better place.&#8221; The organization currently has three active projects: Dying Matters, a resource site for people who expect to die within the year; Funeral Advisor, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-resources"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18979"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18979\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18988,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18979\/revisions\/18988"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shadowmanor.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}